For the whole month of Ramadan, life is turned upside down, and people become nocturnal. Life begins when the sun goes down. A big meal (iftar), usually starting with a date, is eaten after sunset and again just before sunrise (suhur). Women are exceptionally busy cooking and cleaning during this time. Some people spend their evenings visiting with family and friends. Some enjoy their favorite soap operas on TV. Others spend their evenings in prayer and reading the Quran. While it is indeed a high and holy month, oftentimes sleep deprivation, dehydration, and low blood sugar levels lead to grumpiness during the day.
The last ten days of Ramadan are very special, and the 27th is called the “Night of Power” (laylat al qadr). Muslims believe this is when Muhammad first received the Quran. On this night, the gates of Paradise are opened, and the gates of hell are locked up tight. Some spend all night in the mosque praying and reading the Quran. If a Muslim genuinely asks for forgiveness on this night, his or her sins are forgiven. It is “one night equal to a thousand months” (Quran 97:3) — and every good intention and deed is multiplied in reward.
Ramadan ends with Eid al Fitr, a huge day of celebration on par with even the biggest holidays. There are new clothes, gifts, donations to the poor, special foods and time spent with family and friends.